Hey Guys! I hope you are doing Good. In today’s article, we shall discuss some habits of highly attractive men that differentiate them from the rest of the crowd.
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I know that you’ve been taking care of yourself lately. And trust me, I am so proud of you for taking this step. But guess what? I want you to do a lot more than what you are doing at the moment. Let me explain.
As you all know, I always recommend you guys never settle no matter what. Why? Because the one who settles stays just there.
I know that you are growing but at the end of the day, there is always some dude out there who is growing at a much faster pace than you. And even if you are not a big fan of comparisons, still you got to make sure that your growth rate increases with the passage of time.
That said, I’ve done my research and after doing so, I’ve come across this list of special habits that only the most attractive men have managed to develop.
By adopting these habits you can also become highly attractive! And thats exactly what I am trying to preach in today’s article. All you need to do is to copy-paste these habits into your lifestyle and you are good to go.
So without any further ado, let’s hop straight into it.
Differentiating Habits of Highly Attractive Men/Habits that Make you Attractive
Guys! Note that all of these habits carry equal importance. I am numbering them for the sake of listing them down. The number assigned to them has nothing to do with their level of importance.
- Having the Basic Etiquette
- Being Invested in Something
- Starting it off with Kindness
- Not thinking too much
- Not Saying anything without the Mental Approval
- Thinking Intelligently before picking the tribe
- Not letting any stupid thought stop you from doing the Self Care
- Smelling good all the time
- Acquiring the Knowledge
- Being into the Present
- Practicing the Cooking Skills
- Helping the Strangers
And thats it. This in front of you is the list of habits of highly attractive men. This is the secret sauce, that special code you need to make your way into the chest full of attractiveness. I am sure you want to grab all of it. Don’t you?
So without any further ado, let’s hop straight into the list of habits of highly attractive men/habits that make you attractive. Shall we?
1: Having the Basic Etiquette
Starting off with a very important one, Gentlemen, we are talking about the Etiquettes. The basic manners which every man should learn and adapt in order to become a better version of himself.
“What kind of manners are you talking about Nyazi?”
The basic manners which you were taught in the school. That, plus a little bit extra in order to stand out from the crowd.
Imagine sitting at a dining table and eating like an animal. We all know that one dude who makes loud noises while chewing. Maybe it is because of his habit of chewing with his mouth open. Scratching the chest or sniffing the nose while eating something, plus a lot of other things are there that people do. Thats gross and these are the things that I want you to avoid if you really want to add your name to the list of highly attractive men.
With that being said, Let’s talk about some other manners. Shall we?
Guess what? I’ve written 2 articles targeting the topics of etiquettes only.
- 26 Etiquette Rules for a Modern-Day Gentleman (Modern Manners Part 1)
- 26 Etiquettes for the Modern-Day Gentleman (Modern Manners Part 2)
In these articles, I’ve discussed some of the most important manners that separate attractive men from everyone else in the room. I recommend all of you to check these out as they are a must-read!
Following are a few etiquettes that are the most important in my opinion
Eating Etiquettes (Points to Note):
You Are Super Hungry? Relax! We all are Super Hungry at times But you need not Show it to the People Sitting around You. Try to keep it to yourself. Try Not to Make Silly Faces and Try your Best to Not freak out or repeatedly ask when the Food will Arrive.
Finally, the Food Arrives and You are now like a Lion who is about to attack his Prey. Calm Down! Make sure that All of Your Utensils, Fork, Knife, and Spoon are where they Should be.
You can always ask Gently for a Pair of Fork and Knife, In case You’ve been provided with the Spoon Only But You need Fork and Knife for what has been given to you to Eat. Learn about the Names of All of the Utensils that could be Possibly Used to assist you in eating like a Pro.
What Should Your Eating Speed Be? It Depends on the Situation But a general Rule Would be to Eat Not too fast or too slow but to Stay somewhere in the Middle. Eating/Drinking Slightly Slower with Proper refined body language and Calm Posture sends up an Immense amount of Signals of Sexiness and Manliness as well.
Do not Forget to Make use of a Handkerchief or Tissue Paper to clean off the area around your mouth in case You feel like You’ve accidentally ended up with some food particles over there. Do not forget to Put a Napkin on Your Lap as well.
Try not to Make Loud Noises While Eating and Do not forget to take care of the Size of the Bites as well. Again, Neither too Big, Not too Small, Should Stay somewhere in the Middle.
Walk like a Pro
Your Shoulders, need to be broad. I know that they stay recessive all the time but Hit them with a WOW Manhunter because they need to rise! Push them a little bit back and Up, Yeah that’s perfect!
Your chest needs to out. Now make sure that you are not getting it too much out because that way you are gonna end up looking very weird. You just got to get your chest out a little bit, just enough to kill the sloppy posture of yours and that’s it.
Please don’t walk with your hands inside your Pocket. My God! Do you know how recessive and unconfident you look with your hands in your pocket while you are walking? I can’t even measure your level of recessiveness.
Your steps should be medium. Not too big, not too short. Just enough to showcase your sexiness.
Walk with confidence Gentlemen. Ok, think of yourself as a Confident Dude, One who is Sexy and perfect (I repeat, not proud but perfect). Yeah.. you see that smile, that shines in your eyes! Now walk while having that same feeling inside, THAT’S WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!
Never go out with Smelly Armpits that aren’t Shaved. Always Use a Deodorant.
Your Teeth, they get noticed too, A Lot actually! Brush them regularly and Floss daily as well.
Take care of your Nose Hair, Use a Nose Trimmer to Make them not come out of your Nose making you Look like a Beast
No one wants to Sit with a Gentleman that has All the Modern Manners and Etiquettes in the world But has Bad breath. So Take care of that in the First Place before even trying to make an Impression.
Shower Daily. You Must!
Clip your Nails on the Regular Basis and As I told you before as well, Use Nail File to Give that Shine and Maybe Apply some Vaseline to add that Sexy Shine to your Sweet looking Nails (once in a while). Perfect!
Take care of your Body hair. Chest and Back hair Need your attention. Remove the Later and Play with the Former the way you want. Trimmed is the best, in my opinion.
Use a Good Cologne. Check out The Only 15 Fragrance Tips a Guy Would Ever Need! for More.
Basic Manners when you are on the Road
Over Speeding is Never the Most Classy Option. Doing that will Only bring You Damage and No! Over Speeding and Stunt Driving will Not make you any attractive (According to Most Girls)
Look at your Mirrors, Right and Left Both. Keep Some Distance while crossing or overtaking.
Never take Someone else’s Parking Space. Yeah, I am talking about the situation where someone else was just about to park and you put some extra force on the Peddle to take his place. No, Don’t do that.
If You get to know about the fact that there is some sort of Construction Going on ahead then Let others Know about it as well. Don’t let them Go through 1 KM Drive to Find out that they just wasted their Gas only by going forward on that Route.
You are Gonna See Many A$$Holes on the Road. The better option is to Drive Safely and Ignore them. Do not Abuse anyone, no matter How irresponsibly they are Driving. Wardon is there and He will deal with them. Just focus on yourself and Your Drive only.
Do Not try to Impress somebody by Driving fast as if you are some Formula 1 Racer. You are not and No there is No track. Your Actions may result in an accident. And that isn’t Cool and certainly Not the Most Swaggy Incident. Right?
Their is a lot More to it!
Although we’ve covered some very important ones still there is a lot more to it. But don’t worry as your brother has got you covered. All you need to do is to check out:
- 26 Etiquette Rules for a Modern-Day Gentleman (Modern Manners Part 1)
- 26 Etiquettes for the Modern-Day Gentleman (Modern Manners Part 2)
And as a result, you will learn all the information (related to the Basic manners and the etiquettes) that you need in order to take your attractiveness to the next level.
2: Being Invested in Something
Gentlemen! I want you hear this from you. What are you most invested in?
Is it playing games on your mobile phone or spending time with your homies? Are you busy working hard to build up your future (very attractive)? or the only thing that keeps you awake at night is the hope of getting a reply from that one girl you saw the other day?
Your answer to this question determines your level of attractiveness because guess what? One of the most prominent habits of highly attractive men is that they are always invested in something creative, constructive, and productive.
Alright, let’s say you haven’t decided on the area where you can invest yourself and your time into. Don’t worry about that too because we are about to figure that out as well, right now.
Tell me about your passion. What interests you the most? Do you find making videos fascinating? What about making videos for the living? Have you ever thought about becoming a podcaster? Guess what? Being a traveler and documenting your journey is also a career these days! I recommend you to consider that as well.
And just like that, I want you to write down each and everything that excites you. And once you’ve done that, you will have this list of things that you can invest your time into. Choose wisely now because, Oh Boy! You can’t step back. You just can’t! Why? Because you are not like those cowards who start something and then leave it off midway due to some stupid reason.
You, my friend, are an attractive dude and in order to take your attractiveness to the next level, you need to invest your time into something that is highly productive. Thats it.
3: Starting it off with Kindness
Next in the list of Differentiating Habits of Highly Attractive Men/Habits that Make you Attractive is, “Starting it off with the kindness”. What is that all about?
Have you ever somebody who is rude by nature? I am talking about the dudes who meet someone new and greet them not-so-warmly.
That said, what about the dudes who greet you according to your class or social status? They are the ugliest and the filthiest people (in my opinion). I mean, why would you not greet someone warmly just because he has less money in the bank!? This is gross and must never be practiced.
Highly attractive men never do such things, and they tend to stay away from those who practice such stuff in their daily lives. Guess what? Doing this shows that you’ve been brought up like that. This tells a lot about your company, your surroundings, and your beliefs as well.
One of the habits of highly attractive men is that they greet everyone with kindness. They are always extra kind, sort of giving a green signal to everybody, making people comfortable. What does that do? This ensures that you are making new connections. This also ensures that people remember you in the good words even when you are not around.
4: Not Thinking too Much
Excess of anything is bad. Well, I don’t know about “anything” but when it comes to “thinking”, I am afraid, I have to agree with this statement.
Highly attractive men make the progress. They are always growing. And how is it possible to grow at a fast pace when you are spending most of your time thinking about your next step?
Don’t get me wrong but thinking isn’t the only important step in taking things to the next level. Note that with thinking I mean “constantly thinking”.
Alright, you’ve written the plan down. That’s perfect. Now what? Now is the time to take action.
The mistake that most people do is that they keep thinking about the decision they made just a minute ago. And in the hopes of refining their decision, they end up staying stagnant and not making any progress at all. And thats how you stay just there and someone else steals the deal.
I know that the person who stole the deal wasn’t as competitive as you are, but do you want to know what helped him reach the heights? It’s his habit to think once and then take continuous action.
Thinking too much, as I said earlier as well. will keep you stagnant, keeping you from making any progress. And we don’t want that to happen. Right? So Yeah, limit the thinking time and just do it. What’s the worst thing that is going to happen? You are going to fail in the end? Guess what? every failure is a lesson in disguise. And I am so proud of you for leaving the den with a priceless lesson.
5: Not Saying Things without the Mental Approval
Next in the list of Differentiating Habits of Highly Attractive Men/Habits that Make you Attractive is, “Not saying things without the mental approval”.
I have seen plenty of doing this mistake and trust me this is so unattractive. Men should stay calm and poised. And this isn’t just about their appearance but the same goes for their statements as well. You don’t want to be that dude who flushes his inner thoughts out in front of everybody and then regrets his decisions later on.
You definitely don’t want to be that guy who is crying out later on all because of what he did yesterday. Do you?
And same is the case with speaking the trash out when you are angry and then regretting it later on. Do you want to say sorry to people just because of your habit of saying stuff without thinking? If yes then keep doing it but then don’t come to me and ask me the ways to become a highly attractive man. Why? Because highly attractive men do not say a word without imagining the outcome.
Alright, sometimes you can say stuff without imagining the outcomes but at the end of the day, you must never let your secrets out, especially not from your own freaking mouth. That is so stupid. Instead, be like the highly attractive men and think before you say a word.
6: Thinking Intelligently before picking the Tribe
And this is something that I’ve discussed a million times before as well but here again, I am talking about the same exact thing in the context of “Becoming a Highly attractive Man”.
Alright, so what comes in your mind when I say, “Pick your tribe intelligently”?
Am I talking about your family members? Of course Not. Because that’s been already chosen.
I am talking about the FRIENDS, people who you hang out with most of the time. So, why do the highly attractive men think before picking up their friends? Because your company (a group of friends) determines your future.
Change your Company to Increase your Self Confidence
Guys! I know that you have promised yourself that you will do the following things:
- Imagine yourself there (Step number 2)
- Forgive your past (Step Number 1)
- Go Out there and Do It (Step 3)
- Ignore your thoughts and outside environment (Step 4)
But what if I told you that the people who are close to you are one of the main factors involved in you, not becoming self-confident?
Look! We are discussing steps to increase or improve your self-confidence. Right? And the above-given steps were kind of helping you get back on track.
But imagine talking to your friends every single day about it. And Nah! You thought they were supporting you? They are not.
Imagine them being one of those who laugh at you. Imagine them one of those who think that what you are doing is really stupid.
Guess what? If you have such kind of people close to you then your chances of getting on the top and becoming self-confident are very less!
The thing is people who surround us and stay close to us, kinda determine what our future is going to be. You can’t be a successful person being with those who think that every successful person is a gonna go to Hell.
Your Company Determines how your Current year is going to be (on the basis of Performance)
I’ve been talking about this a lot lately. And the reason behind this is the impact that this one thing can have on both your present and future. Let me explain.
So.. you usually hang out with Ali and James. Cool. But are they really worth it? I mean, I have seen both of them doing drugs and being suck a non-serious person all the time.
Look! I am not against “non-serious behavior”. In fact, I’ve witnessed men who were really non-serious, achieving a lot in their life. I understand thats something that’s a part of someone’s nature.
But guess what? You need to get serious as well, at times. You just can’t expect to stay non-serious and then expect life to do wonders. All you get is what you work for.
And even if that isn’t a concern, still, these 2 guys are very spoiled. It’s kinda toxic as they won’t do anything thats positive.
The Problem with your Company
- They don’t want to work hard or achieve anything in life
- They stop each other whenever one of them is trying to do something great (monetarily or lifestyle-wise)
- It’s the bad habits they have that will stop them (and yourself as well) from making it big
Choose your side once and for all. Do you want to hang out with these people and ruin both your present and future or will you do yourself a huge favor and change your company?
Alright. You don’t want to leave them? Just don’t. All I want you to do is to get close to people who are hustlers. I am talking about visionary people. Spend more time with them as compared to these 2. Yes, you can spend some time with them as well but just change your majors (trust me.. you will thank yourself for this decision of yours in the later years).
Conclusion (Fix your Company to look Better)
All in All, I recommend you all to make sure that the people who you hang out with are supportive. I know that you want to make sure that your clothes look good all the time plus your skin & hair look good too.
But you for sure can’t do that as long as you are not changing your company. Why? Because all of them are addicts. At least they love to eat unhealthy on the daily basis. Plus Men’s self-care is still Taboo for them. So don’t. Please don’t do this to yourself.
Spend your time with people who:
- are really motivated
- want to change themselves for the better
- want to look good (clothing, self-care)
- aim to achieve mental peace
- are super supportive
- have a positive mindset towards the life
And if your company has all of these traits then Bro, guess what? you are or you are soon going to become a highly attractive man!
7: Not Letting Stupid things stop you from the Self Care
Next in the list of Differentiating Habits of Highly Attractive Men/Habits that Make you Attractive is, “Not Letting Stupid things stop you from the Self Care”.
When I say Self Care, What I am actually saying is:
- Going to the gym regularly
- Following a Proper Skincare Routine
- Taking Care of your Hair
- Taking Care of your Clothes & Style & Fashion as well
Trust me! The above-given 4 things are the only things that you need in order to become highly attractive. But then comes the problems that get in the way of you doing these things on the regular basis.
Consistency is the key! I want you all to keep in mind that the one habit that separates highly attractive men from all the other dudes in the room is “Consistency”. They are ultra-consistent.
They make sure that they play the game intelligently and never skip a day. You got to take care of your skin every single day if you really want to look better with every day passed. And same goes for your hair as well. Keep on learning new and better ways to improve your clothing and style. Thats the only way to look great even when you are in your 40s or 50s.
At the end of the day, it’s your choices that separate you from the rest of the people. All I want you to do is pick the above-given 4 self-care pillars and hold on to them tightly!
8: Smelling Good all the time
Next in the list of Differentiating Habits of Highly Attractive Men/Habits that Make you Attractive is, “Smelling Good all the time”.
Attractive men smell good most of the time, especially when they have to attend a meeting or when they are going to a party.
But Highly attractive men smell good all the time!
Guess what? You don’t need a special occasion to smell special. You need to smell special all the time because you never know when you end up meeting this girl who (maybe) you end up liking and spending your rest of the life with. You don’t want to smell bad meeting her for the first time. Do you?
Or maybe you end up meeting your boss in the market. Do you want to smell bad when you meet your boss in the market or someone else who thinks that you are a super stylish dude who smells good all the time? Definitely Not!
So make sure that you smell good all the time.
Here’s a little guide to help you learn more about the Fragrances: The Only 15 Fragrance Tips a Guy Would Ever Need!
9: Acquiring more Knowledge
Boys! We’ve upgraded already. You’ve been told a lot of information related to the habits of highly attractive men. I am sure that all of this information is definitely going to help you become a much attractive man, a lot better than what you are at this moment. Wait a minute…
What is this entire article about? It is about the knowledge & information related to the habits of highly attractive men. Right?
Heck, My entire blog is about helping you become a better version of yourself.
But at the end of the day, it’s the knowledge that I try to give to you with the help of these articles that I try to write on the regular basis. Right?
Thats the power of knowledge. Highly attractive men understand this power and hence one of the very prominent habits of highly attractive men is that they never stop learning and (hence) growing.
An Attractive man with knowledge is a lot more attractive than an attractive man without knowledge.
Knowledge is going to help you in growing, delivering better presentations, stunning people with the information that you’ve learned so far, etc. In short, you need to acquire knowledge to grow yourself both mentally and physically. Come on! It makes you 10 times more attractive than the rest of the dudes in the room.
10: Being Present
Do you want to be that dude who looks fine, dresses very well, and has maintained a good style, however, he is never present?
Alright, I am talking about all those dudes who are sitting with you but they are busy either on their phones or like they are always thinking about something. They might be list in their past but guess what? All of this makes them look highly unattractive.
Being Present is the habit of Highly attractive men. They stay present and give full attention to the person who they are sitting with, at the moment. It falls under basic manners and it shows that you respect that other person. It helps develop a special bond between the two and for sure it increases your attractiveness 10 folds. How? It makes you appear attractive not just physically but personality-wise as well. So yeah.
11: Practicing the Cooking Skills
Gentlemen! Coming next in the list of habits of highly attractive men is, “Practicing the cooking skills”.
This is a skill that is proven to increase your attractiveness by several folds. Why? Because of the following reasons:
- When you know how to cook, you can cook for yourself. When you cook for yourself, you cook healthy and that shows up on your face. Your skin and hair plus your body looks super good
- You become a helping hand for your partner. Cooking breakfast for her is definitely going to put your wife in a very good mood!
I believe that both these reasons are strong enough and let me give you another reason, Almost every highly attractive man has this habit of continuously improving their cooking skills. I invite you to become part of this list of highly attractive men. All you need to do is to start learning the basic cooking, available free on Youtube. Thats it.
12: Helping the Strangers
Please don’t do it for the sake of publicity and don’t do it if you don’t feel it from the inside.
I want you to be real with your actions and feel exactly the same way you are doing it.
So yeah, I recommend each and every one of you to help the strangers as thats going to come back to you in one way or the other. Volunteering and taking part in the activities which in one way or the other prove helpful for the others, is something that only the most attractive men do.
It is going to make you super attractive from the inside. And with that being said, I would like to conclude today’s list of habits of highly attractive men. So what are your thoughts about it? I want to know your opinion regarding this list of attractive habits. You are most welcome to say whatever you want over at my Instagram (@worldofnyazi). And I shall get back to you ASAP with another one,