Hey Guys! I hope you all are doing Good. In today’s article, we will talk about some of the reasons why most men, no matter what they do, always end up looking bad.
Guys! I know the struggle. I understand that you’ve been trying your best to look good. You wash your face twice a day and you’ve been following this skincare regimen religiously, as well. It must be really off-putting to still end up looking bad. Right?
But not anymore. Your brother has discovered the reason behind this entire happening. I’ve done the research and found out this list of 12 honest reasons why most men always end up looking bad/unattractive.
However, before going into that, I would like to divert your attention towards this guide that I had written just recently. It contains a secret formula that is going to help you improve your appearance while staying at home.
Alright, shall we move on and talk about the list of reasons why most men end up looking unattractive? So without any further ado, let’s get straight into it.
Reasons why most men/guys end up looking Bad/Unattractive
- They Follow the Trends Blindly.
- They have little to No knowledge about fragrances.
- Their details are Nasty.
- Bad Posture is a big problem.
- They are afraid of trying out the new stuff.
- Their workouts are not correct.
- They talk ugly.
- Sneakers are a BIG Problem.
- They are Needy.
- They do not own their shit.
- Fake Branded Items.
- They are not calm and composed.
- They are always talking about the things they are obsessed with.
Thats it. This, in front of you, is the list of reasons which, in my opinion, make men unattractive. By taking care of these things (by neglecting these from your lifestyle) you can increase your chances of looking better/attractive. So without any further ado, let’s hop straight into each one of these and discuss them in detail. Shall we?
1: They Follow the trends blindly
Gentlemen! The first one in the list is “Following the trends blindly”.
Trends come and go. These days you can see a lot of trends popping off. With the rise of multiple social media platforms, the chances of getting things picked up are increased a lot.
There are influencers almost everywhere. You can see popular creators on Instagram doing something and the next day it becomes a trend with about a million people following it already.
But is there somebody whose job is to sit and decide whether this trend will look good on people on not? Heck, what about the celebrity himself? Is he looking good while wearing this new type of shirt that he just made trendy?
At the end of the day, our final goal is to look good in whatever we are wearing. Right? If thats so, then why are you wearing this ugly sheer top, thinking that it makes you look good when in reality it is destroying your entire personality into a million pieces. 🙂
That said, not all trends are bad. Trust me, boys! I am not against trends. In fact, there are a lot of trends that have revolutionized the men’s style industry, bringing a lot of attractiveness to the house.
But at the end of the day, you need to think about it intelligently. You just can’t wear a Shirt, or Rock a specific hairstyle, just because it is in trend right now. Think about it, analyze it, and then imagine yourself wearing/rocking it. If you find this trend suitable for you and your personality, only then go for it, otherwise, just say No and move on to something else.
2: They have little to No knowledge about Fragrances
How many of you guys know that I’ve written a detailed guide on Fragrances? I am sure most of you don’t know about it. Never mind, you can check it out by Clicking this > All you need to know about Fragrances.
Ok, so what’s the goal here? Today’s topic is all about looking attractive. Right? We are basically discussing some of the most prominent reasons why most men end up looking bad. Right? “Not knowing about the Fragrance” is yet another reason why you end up looking unattractive, no matter what.
I’ve seen you wearing this popular body spray all the time. Guess what? This isn’t enough. In fact, you should skip this and switch to something real, something manly. Get yourself a bottle of Perfume.
Do the research, my friend. There are a lot of Perfumes out there, Eau de Toilette, Eau de Parfum, and many more. They are designer fragrances and then there are some cheap colognes as well (that smell amazing).
Just as I told you before, make sure that you are doing the research right. And if you do, I am sure that you will learn a lot about fragrances and how they can take your attractiveness to a whole another level. You will realize there are different perfumes based on the time of the day, weather, and you’ve got different perfumes for different moods, as well.
Choose Wisely and make sure that you are getting more than one bottle. And also make sure that you are not getting 2 bottles of the same fragrance.
3: The Details are Nasty
Next in the list of reasons why most men/guys end up looking bad/unattractive is, “The Details”.
Let me tell you something, your details are one of the reasons why you are perceived as unattractive. And it all boils down to your personal hygiene. Let me explain.
I want you to look at your hand for a moment. Focus on the Nails. Do they look good? Are they cut flat with no dirt inside? Take a look at your heels now. What about the cracks? And will you mind me asking about your Teeth, your smile, my friend, it is related to my department, so I guess I can ask about it from you. So yeah, do you brush your teeth twice a day?
I have been pushing you to buy a trimmer to clean the lines of your beard and the excessive hair outside the boundary of your hairstyle, especially on the back of your head. So what’s the progress? Have you bought the trimmer? If yes then do you take care of the lines and the excess hair?
Your skin looks dry. What? You’ve noticed that? Well, this could be because you’ve never looked at yourself in the mirror closely. This problem could have been solved just by applying a moisturizer regularly and drinking enough water throughout the day.
I want you to ask all of these questions yourself. And once you receive a No, I want you to start working on each of these areas. Take care of all of these, one by one. Guys! I am sure that with the passage of time you will fix all of these details because you know what? These details when combined, they become big enough to become a reason why you always end up looking bad/unattractive.
4: Bad Posture is a big problem
There are many reasons why you must work on your posture. One of the prominent reasons is “Attractiveness”. Yes! Your posture determines your attractiveness. Guess what? if you really want to look good and project yourself as an attractive & confident gentleman then you need to learn how to sit, stand, and walk properly.
I’ve talked about this in one of my recent articles “Improve your appearance while you are at home”, as well. Following is a snippet that I copied from over there:
I want you to observe the way that you sit. Yes, you’ve picked up this habit to bring your neck forward, all due to the excessive use of gadgets. And same is the case with your bent down shoulders and your curved back. You look really bad while you are sitting.
Push your shoulders backward and straighten your back. And take your neck backward. Make sure that you are sitting on a chair with back support because that plays a role in helping you correct your posture, would be great to have that to practice the new and better posture.
You are standing wrong too. You don’t want to be standing with your belly pushed forwards or your neck pushed forwards along with the rest of the body in an asymmetrical position. All you wanna do is to stand straight with your shoulders, hips, and ankles aligned in a straight line.
Don’t worry much about it. Just watch a couple of videos on the internet and start the practice. You will learn & adapt to the new and better posture in about a month.
Now let’s talk about the way you Walk. Shall we?
Walk with Confidence
I love this one. I love it when a man knows how to walk with confidence. Every man deserves to learn to walk with confidence as it affects his overall appearance & confidence points. Following are some tips from my side:
- Your Shoulders, need to be broad. I know that they stay recessive all the time but Hit them with a WOW Manhunter because they need to rise! Push them a little bit back and Up, Yeah that’s perfect!
- Your chest needs to out. Now make sure that you are not getting it too much out because that way you are gonna end up looking very weird. You just got to get your chest out a little bit, just enough to kill the sloppy posture of yours and that’s it.
- Please don’t walk with your hands inside your Pocket. My God! Do you know how recessive and unconfident you look with your hands in your pocket while you are walking? I can’t even measure your level of recessiveness.
- Your steps should be medium. Not too big, not too short. Just enough to showcase your sexiness.
- Walk with confidence Gentlemen. Ok, think of yourself as a Confident Dude, One who is Sexy and perfect (I repeat, not proud but perfect). Yeah.. you see that smile, that shines in your eyes! Now walk while having that same feeling inside, THAT’S WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!
And in the end, all I would like to say is that you need to keep on practicing until you reach the pro level. I am sure that once you adopt this new way of sitting, standing, and walking, your attractiveness will increase by 10 folds.
5: They are Afraid of Trying out new Stuff
Next in the list of reasons why most men/guys end up looking bad/unattractive is, “They do not try new stuff”.
The reason why I included this point in my list is due to the fact that in point number #1, I talked about “not following the trends”. Guys, I don’t want to send out the message that you should not go out of your comfort box.
In fact, I always recommend people to try out new stuff and stretch out their style limits because thats the only way you can grow and improve your appearance.
Then where to draw the line?
Guys! The thing that you need to understand is that trying out new stuff is one thing and blindly throwing yourself into an entirely new genre of style is another thing.
“Trying out new stuff” involves you thinking about things intelligently and carefully adding things to your bucket list. However, “following trends blindly” includes nothing like that. In fact, in the latter, all you do is follow what’s been shown to you without noticing its effect on your personal style and your overall personality.
But if you are somebody who never upgrades his style and sticks to just a couple of things that he once learned about the style and fashion then, my friend, I have an announcement for you as well. You are always going to end up looking bad/unattractive. And you already know the reason behind that. The one who stays constant and never upgrades becomes extinct.
6: Their workouts are not correct.
One of the reasons why most men end up looking bad/unattractive is because of their not-so-good-looking physique.
“Nyazi! I have been hitting the gym for like a year now”
I know that you go to the gym on the regular basis but still, you are seeing little to no results. Nah! Don’t blame your genetics for that. I’ve seen almost everybody making an improvement and do you want to know what all of them had in common?
- They never wasted their time talking shit with their partners.
- They did the research, hired a trainer, did whatever they could to make the best out of each of their repetition.
Are you doing the same thing? Come on. I want you to raise your hand if you are also not wasting your time just talking and doing nothing and if you’ve hired the trainer who teaches you the perfect angles.
Hah! Not even a single person has raised his hand. This shows how practically dedicated you are to self-improvement.
Guys! Look at me. All I need you to do is to take it seriously. I know that you always tailor your clothes to fit your body proportions. But all of that is in vain if your body proportions are not dope. At the end of the day, it all boils down to how well-built your physique is.
7: You talk Ugly
This one has 2 parts. One includes you talking ugly (apparently) and the other includes you talking ugly (as in talking shit). We will cover both of these because both of these deserve to be part of the list of reasons why most men end up looking bad/unattractive.
You Talk Ugly (Apparently)
Guys! I want you to observe yourself when you talk. Focus on your body language and your pitch as well. And notice how you deliver the words.
I’ve told by your friends that you get a little too much excited and your pitch gets too high when you talk, even the most normal things. They told me that you lack in the variations. You don’t really have an idea where to emphasize and where to just let it flow.
This is a big problem because, in order to really look attractive, you need to first learn to become an elegant & a decent personality. And the way you talk counts a lot in that.
I know that you don’t have the manliest voice. No Problem. Just start talking slow and start putting the emphasis where it is needed. Learn to add variations when you talk. Use your body language intelligently. Ok, think of yourself as a Confident dude who is really very classy. Now talk whatever you want to talk, while imaging that. I am sure this will bring a positive change.
You Talk Ugly (Literally)
We can include a lot of things here. You might have this habit of swearing a lot. Chances are that you have little to No knowledge about almost anything. Maybe you have no idea when to talk and when not to.
Chances are that you are a negative person overall and whenever you talk, it is something negative, destructive, depressing, and/or pessimistic.
Whatever the situation is, I want you to work on all of these things if you really want to project yourself as an attractive & well-groomed (inside-out) gentleman.
Start by acquiring more knowledge, learn about ethics, etiquette, and manners. The more you will learn about these, the more these will become part of your personality (subconsciously). And thats how you are going to improve with the passage of time.
8: Your Sneakers are a Big Problem
Next in the list of reasons why most men/guys end up looking bad/unattractive is, “Their sneakers”.
Please don’t hate me for saying this but seriously, What is that? I mean, your sneaker collection is really getting on my nerves.
Ok, I understand that you love your sneaker and each of these purchases of yours has a story behind it but guess what? Wearing these super big pattered sneakers make you look unattractive.
No matter how attractive your rest of the outfit is, if you are wearing the wrong shoes, prepare yourself to receive a -5 from your overall look. Yes, thats the effect that a shoe has on your personality.
I would recommend you dump your super big and giant sneakers. And also ditch these pattered and overall colored Hydro-dyed sneakers. Because all of these doing nothing to improve your appearance. Instead, they are decreasing your overall score, as I said before.
9: You are Needy
Next in the list of reasons why most men/guys end up looking bad/unattractive is, “Neediness”.
I’ve talked about that in one of my previous articles as well in which we were debating over the reasons girls don’t want to talk to some men. One of the reasons that I mentioned over there was, “Neediness/clinginess”. Following is a little snippet from that article.
Neediness and Talking to the Girls
One of the very very possible reasons why she is never going to talk to you again is because of your habit of constantly bothering people.
I know that you do not do it on purpose and that it’s something that is part of your nature. But hey! It is what it is. If you are acting weird, then you are weird. They don’t care if you are doing it pre-planned or it’s something included in your nature.
Alright, I want to ask this question from you.
“Will you want to talk to somebody who is being clingy and needy?”
I am sure you will want to throw him away, maybe in a trash can, if you can.
Thats exactly what a girl wants to do when a guy acts super weird around her. They don’t want to stick to them. Give her some space bro. I understand that you like her and you have good intentions for her. You will tell your mom about her and You for sure want to marry her as well. But guess what? to get to that stage you need her to like you. Right?
And in order to her to like you, their has to be some conversation between you. Right?
In order for a healthy conversation to happen, you need to act normal and not clingy. So yeah, things start and end just at the point where your personality starts. Avoid being needy. Stop asking for continuous attention. Stop finding ways to talk to her. Focus on your goals and talk to her only when you have something solid to say.
Please do not lose your respect by being needy. You deserve a lot of respect. Please do not murder it with your own hands.
Neediness in general
It isn’t just about talking to the girls only. Your neediness can ruin your respect and make you look bad/unattractive, no matter what the situation is.
Your neediness is going to repel people and in the end, you are going to be left alone because people hate those who are clingy and always around them.
10: They do not own their shit
Next in the list of reasons why most men/guys end up looking bad/unattractive is, “They do not own their shit”.
I want you to answer this question. How many of you can accept who you are and what you do in front of the public?
I know that you have just started doing freelancing and chances are that you are afraid of the fact that people do not consider Freelancing a sustainable earning option. But at the end of the day, it is what it is. I know that you’ve managed to pay your bills with it. Then what’s the problem?
Why don’t you own your identity and the work to which you put countless hours?
And then come those who do not own their mistakes. Instead of owning their mistakes, they start blaming others. They look for mistakes in the system or some other identity, directly or indirectly involved in the scenario.
This is bad. It makes you look weak and really very unattractive. Attractive men on the other hand own their mistakes. Hey! Mistakes are normal. Even the best of us make mistakes but do you want to know what separates them from the rest of the crowd? It’s their bravery! They accept their mistakes like a man and I expect the same thing from you as well.
11: Fake Branded Items
And the next one in the list of reasons why most men end up looking bad/unattractive is, “Fake Branded Items”.
Gentlemen! Buying fake Gucci or Hermes isn’t going to make you look rich or attractive. In fact, this makes you look bad & cheap because the real ones are going to identify your stuff in minutes.
And in case you are surrounded by people who are just like you then things are even worse. I’ve always talked about the impact of a company and if you are around people who buy fake stuff just because they value the brand and materialism then guess what? all of you guys are 10 times more unattractive than any other unattractive dude out there.
These are your preferences and choices that made you unattractive. Look, I am not saying that earning money or valuing it is a bad thing. But at the end of the day if your primary judging factor is money then you are definitely going to make a lot of materialistic (only) decisions in your life. You are going to attract fake people and your whole crew will be labeled as a super unattractive and toxic crew.
I am sure you don’t want to happen. Do you?
12: They are not calm and composed
Being calm and composed is a sign of pure class.
We’ve talked about that in the other points of this article as well. You can only talk attractive if you are doing it calmly with confidence in your base. Right?
And same is the case with walking like a Confident man. What needs to be there as a must? Calmness.
You can’t project yourself as a handsome and attractive dude if you are not calm and composed.
In fact, you must learn to stay calm and confident, under pressure, as well! Don’t worry boys, You don’t have to go and search for ways to stay calm, confident, and attractive under pressure because your brother has you covered!
Following is a list of things to keep in mind:
- Its OK If you Fail (Especially if its the Start)
- Put Yourself Under Pressure (Willingly)
- Their Sympathy isn’t Your Win (So Stay Strong)
- Sit & Stand Openly and Move Freely
- Note That: You are Going to be Fine Anyways!
- Being Non-Reactive is Cool
- Breathe in and Breathe Out
- Give Yourself a Guideline (Divide and Rule)
- Change Your Perception (Consider yourself a Video Game Hero)
- Just Do it. Stop Thinking!
- Dress Well (and Groom yourself) No Matter What!
- Become Less Toxic (Stop Playing the Victim Card, Let Things Go, Stop Creating the Drama)
- Relax and Take Your Time (Don’t Make Quick Decisions)
- Ask for Help (It’s always a Good Idea)
- Some Body language Hacks to Stay Confident and Calm Under Pressure / Stress
13: They are always talking about the things they are obsessed with
And last but not the least in the list of reasons why most men end up looking bad/unattractive is, “Their obsession”.
I know that you love Bodybuilding and fitness.
Your friends told me that you love cars and you are always talking about that only.
Let me tell you something. I have this dude in my gym who is a really decent guy. He has built a good physique and he takes care of his skin as well. But his entire Instagram is full of gym-related posts. And same is the case with his Whatsapp Statuses. I am always like, “Dude! Chill”.
I can understand where he, and many more like him, are coming from. But at the end of the day, if you really want to look attractive then you need to add variety to your choices and preferences.
And with that being said, I would like to conclude today’s article. So what are your thoughts about this list of reasons why most men end up looking bad/unattractive”? I need to hear back from you. Send me your feedback, advice, and comments, over at my Instagram (@worldofnyazi). And I will come back to you ASAP,