Hey guys! I hope you all are doing Good. In today’s article, we will talk about Dominance. We all want to be the dominant one in the Equation. Don’t we?
But it isn’t that easy. Trust me. In order to become the most prominent or the dominant one in the Room, you got to make sure that you doing a particular set of things.
Yes, there will also be things that you will have to ignore in order to become that “dominant” person. What are those things though?
Slow down champ. We will talk about everything, but one by one. Today is all about the key rules, the things to note, key points to focus on if you want to become the most dominant man in the room.
But why do you even want to become the dominant person? Look dominance equals many things.
A dominant person is viewed as the most attractive person in the room as well. Dominance is also equal to manliness which we all know, is one of the most appealing things that a man has.
With that being said, dominance also equals respect which brings peace to a person’s life. You would definitely not want to spend a life full of regrets and no respect.
So yeah, I guess we’ve covered enough reasons to focus on dominance and things that make you a dominant man. Without any further ado, let’s hop straight into the list of key rules to become the most dominant man in the room. Shall we?
Key Rules to Become the most dominant man in the Room/tips to become a dominant man/Steps to Dominate/Tips to become the most attractive man in the room.
- The first rule.
- Learn to think about YOURSELF.
- Do what you think is ok.
- Dress unpredictably.
- Value your time.
- Stick to the original form of your perspective.
- Stay emotionally calm in difficult situations.
- Knowing how to solve problems.
- “Relax” state of mind.
- Compliment people (Gold).
- Be secure (don’t bully people/don’t brag).
- Take risks.
- A glimpse of don’ts (DO NOT GOSSIP).
That’s pretty much it. The above-given list of things/rules is all you need to incorporate in your life if you want to become the most dominant man in the room.
So without any further ado, let’s hop straight into each one of these to discuss them in detail. Shall we?
1: The first rule.
What is the key rule here? The golden rule that you need to follow in order to become the most dominant man in the room.
Look, it has to do with your inner self. I want you to ask yourself… “Who are you following”?
Are you living your life on your terms? Or are you following somebody else? Chances are that you are doing exactly what this other person is telling you to do. It must be super toxic. Right?
You got to say “No” to their face. Guys! You only got one life and I don’t want you to ruin this just because somebody else wants you to do this particular thing.
Just say No to their face politely and things are going to be alright. And if things get complicated, you already know what to do… You got to cut them off of your life.
They do not deserve you. Guys! how can a person deserve your presence in his/her life if they can’t let you live your life on your terms? It makes no sense to me.
You got to start valuing yourself (more on that later) because if you won’t value yourself, nobody else will.
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Doing what somebody wants you to do is going to take away that confidence and attractiveness from your persona. It will leave you blank and I am sorry to say but all that is lost was from your pocket only.
2: Be able to think about yourself.
This one is also related to the first one. Ok, so why aren’t you able to say to their face? Ahhh, you don’t want to hurt them. Hmm.
Chances are that you don’t want to make them sad and for that reason, you are doing what they want you to do, low-key killing your goals, objectives, and happiness
Guess what? You need to rethink this whole situation. What you are losing can’t come back. You are losing this precious time of yours. The time which you should have utilized to think about yourself.
But you decided to go to a whole another direction.
Ok, don’t get me wrong. I am not saying that doing things for others and making others happy is a bad thing. But you need to understand that there needs to be a line.
Doing things for others and spending time in that area is good but you got to keep yourself in the most important spot. Your life should revolve around yourself because there is going to be nobody else who is going to put you on that spot if you won’t.
It isn’t a cool idea to sacrifice your:
- Mental health.
- Physical health.
Just to make someone happy. Trust me, boys, most of the people who are with you today are not going to be with you in the coming years. The person that will stay with you is yourself so learn to love yourself. Spend money on yours and make sure that you are putting yourself in the “most important” spot.
3: Asking others for validation.
The next one on the list of Key Rules to Become the most dominant man in the Room/tips to become a dominant man/Steps to Dominate/Tips to become the most attractive man in the room is to ask others for validation.
Are you doing what you think is ok? I am sorry, I forgot that there is nothing in your dictionary that says “ok”.
You need validation. You ask others for validation. Whether it is trying something new, maybe dressing differently, or whatever, you need validation from others and then only your day will be spent well.
Let’s say you dressed perfectly but nobody complimented you… And for that reason, your mood got freaked up. It happens to everybody. We all love compliments and they make us happy. But things are a little different in your situation. If there is no compliment then there is no happiness, that’s what your life is all about.
You need 2-3 people saying “ok” to your dressing, choices, decisions, etc, in order for you to stick to those decisions. That’s bad, thats very bad. Guys! You need to be able to take your decisions by yourself and stick to them no matter what because thats a sign of power and dominance.
4: Dressing unpredictably.
Let’s discuss the example of “dressing” a little bit more.
Do you love to dress up? I am sure you do. But do you dare to dress differently? I am not sure about that though.
Guys! It’s all about going out of your comfort zone to try out different things. You can’t be dressing a certain way only and also want others to call you “alpha” because alphas take risks (more on risks in detail later as well).
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They know how to dress to impress. Dressing to impress is a long journey gentleman and it all starts with taking into consideration different dressing styles and genres.
You got to look for different styles, colors, layers, and a lot of other dressing rules plus yes, you got to break a few as well to come with something that looks perfect w.r.t your persona and/or Vibe.
Dressing unpredictably yet perfectly is what I am trying to promote here. You need to learn to wear things that look good on you but also make sure that you are not sticking with those things only. It’s all about experimenting to see what looks good on you. But then keep on experimenting to see what else can you look good in.
5: Value your time.
The next one on the list of Key Rules to Become the most dominant man in the Room/tips to become a dominant man/Steps to Dominate/Tips to become the most attractive man in the room is valuing your time.
Do you want to know what happens when you start valuing your time? Other start taking you seriously. They know that you have your issues and you take your things seriously. A person who is involved in useless conversations wastes his time can never be considered as a dominant person.
Because what he is doing is not “dominant” at all. Too much humor, laughing in front of others, wasting your time, and such stuff, can ruin your importance. It takes away that special mysterious part of yours that equals dominance and manliness.
Look, I am not saying that being funny is bad. In fact, your humor can be one of the things that makes you unique and different.
But again, overdoing things can take away the charm. So please start valuing your time and take note of what you spend your time on… If you are spending most of your time on useless things then you need to take a few steps back because what you are doing is nothing but destroying your own persona.
6: Stick to the original form of your perspective.
So let’s say you said something. Maybe you put your perspective in front of the table. But others have to say entirely different things. Let’s say there are 2-3 people who are saying something else.
Nah. You don’t have to back up. Oh, so you are now trying to twist and turn your perspective to make it look somewhat close to what those people are saying?
That’s called “People Pleasing”… I know that you started saying “No” but you still have to fight another kind of people-pleasing and that is twisting your perspective and changing it to make things just to make the environment comfortable.
Let it stay uncomfortable. Your perspective can only stay firm if you stick to it in its original form. They are going to start respecting you only if you will stick to your perspective (the original form).
A dominant man respects his thoughts, points of view, etc. For that reason, he knows that his perspectives are only going to stay important if they are presented in the original form. Let them mold their perspectives and beliefs to make them look similar to that of you. Yeah, thats what I am talking about. You got to stay stiff to achieve that stage.
7: Staying emotionally calm in tough situations.
Tough situations come. They come to all of us. But what separates dominant men from those who are not that dominant?
Yes, it is their ability to stay emotionally calm. They stay non-reactive and that makes them stand out. Imagine tough situations coming up and you handling them without showing any reactions, thats the kind of dominance that I am talking about.
It can be divided into two parts actually.
- Not letting your brain clutter.
- Staying nonreactive physically.
You got to master both of these things. First thing first, let’s say your mind is freaked up and your entire body is also terrified because of this sudden problem that popped up.
But you are trying to act calm from the outside. Thats perfect, but I am afraid you won’t be able to make better decisions. Why? It is clear. Your mind isn’t functioning properly. How are you going to make a better decision that will take you out of this situation? The goal isn’t just to act tough but to train yourself to stay tough in tough situations.
8: Knowing how to solve problems.
The next one on the list of Key Rules to Become the most dominant man in the Room/tips to become a dominant man/Steps to Dominate/Tips to become the most attractive man in the room is to know how to solve problems.
Ok, so emotional stability is the only thing that you need. Right? Nah! You got to learn the skills that are necessary to help you get through the possible problems.
You got to do the research for this one boy. What are the problems that you might end up facing? To know that, you will have to write down the areas that you work in.
What is your work all about in your day-to-day life? Write that down. Also write down the possible problems that you might get into in your home, office, university, etc. It could be something related to your car, a wiring problem, etc.
Just write all these things down. Once you’ve all the problems written down, I want you to search for the solution to these problems on the internet or from the people who you think will be able to help you get rid of these problems.
Guys! It’s all about being handy. Knowing the solutions is the key and you got to master the solutions if you really want to stay emotionally stable. How to stay nonreactive when problems come up? It will definitely be easy if you already know how to get through this problem. And that means you are going to be the most alpha male in the room.
Voila, problem solved!
9: Having that “Relax” state.
Calmness is the key gentlemen. And we aren’t talking about just the problem-oriented situations here. But in general as well.
Guys! You need to understand that in order to be viewed as one of the most dominant men in the room, you will have to slow yourself down.
All those quick reactions, the funny you, the reflexes, and that crazy fast style of talking and/or walking that you have need to be fixed.
You need to work on the following things:
- Work on the way you sit. You need to work on your posture Your back should be rested and you don’t have to bow forward. Make your head well rested and make sure that you are sitting intact with your legs not crossed super close but a little bit distance in between then will look super manly.
- The way you stand has an impact on your personality too. Stand firm with a moderate distance in between your feet. Those hands in the pockets and having the arms crossed all the time and that back in the weird posture, all these things need to go!
- The way you walk comes next. Following is how you need to walk to look like the most attractive man in the room!
Walk like a Boss!
- Your Shoulders, need to be broad. I know that they stay recessive all the time but Hit them with a WOW Manhunter because they need to rise! Push them a little bit back and Up, Yeah that’s perfect!
- Your chest needs to out. Now make sure that you are not getting it too much out because that way you are gonna end up looking very weird. You just got to get your chest out a little bit, just enough to kill the sloppy posture of yours and that’s it.
- Please don’t walk with your hands inside your Pocket. My God! Do you know how recessive and unconfident you look with your hands in your pocket while you are walking? I can’t even measure your level of recessiveness.
- Your steps should be medium. Not too big, not too short. Just enough to showcase your sexiness.
- Walk with confidence Gentlemen. Ok, think of yourself as a Confident Dude, One who is Sexy and perfect (I repeat, not proud but perfect). Yeah.. you see that smile, that shines in your eyes! Now walk while having that same feeling inside, THAT’S WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT!
So yeah, its all about staying calm, standing perfectly, sitting confidently, talking moderately (not too fast, not too slow), making sure your pitch is not that high or not that low, and last but not the least, what you talk should be meaningful too!
10: Compliment people.
The next one on the list of Key Rules to Become the most dominant man in the Room/tips to become a dominant man/Steps to Dominate/Tips to become the most attractive man in the room is to compliment people.
Do you want to know the secret to impress whoever it is that you want to impress?
Yeah, it’s that simple. Guys! The most dominant man in the room is the person who is loved, appreciated, and chosen by most of the people in the room. And what better way it is to win people than complimenting them?
BUT! Make sure that you are passing the real compliments. Look, they aren’t fooled. You just can’t pass fake compliments and wait for them to become fans of yours. It ain’t happening champ.
Plus not just for becoming the dominant person in the room, you should be complimenting people just to see a smile on their faces. Trust me, it is one of the best feelings in the world when you see somebody smiling just because of you.
11: Be secure (don’t bully people/don’t brag).
Those who bully others aren’t secure about themselves. They talk bad about people just to make others talk about them. So basically, they don’t have much in their personality other than this negativity that they disperse on others.
The same goes for bragging as well. Bragging is a clear sign of the fact that you are a liar. Those who brag are clearly insecure about themselves. They are not secure and for that reason, they brag and shout about their wealth (most of it is fake). Buying fake branded items also counts in.
Stop these things guys because that isn’t how you become dominant. Instead, it makes you look insecure and that’s very unattractive.
12: Taking risk.
Taking risk is what it is all about my friend.
Those who take risks are the ones who are viewed as the unique ones and unique and dominant as well.
Learn to take calculated risks when it comes to:
- Starting your own business.
- Taking a step towards your goals and objectives.
- Trying out new dressing styles.
- and the list goes on and on.
The more you take risks, the more you will stand out. But again, do not take risks just to stand out even if you already know that this risk will freak you up. Calculated risk, however, is what you need to be taking in order to be viewed as the dominant man of the room!
13: The glimpse of Don’ts (Do not gossip).
And the last one here is actually not a “Do” but a “Don’t”. Something that you should not do if you want to become the most dominant man in the room.
Do not gossip. Please guys, because it will ruin your respect. Eventually, people get to know things that somebody talks about them behind their back and your entire persona will be ruined at that time. You definitely don’t want that to happen. Right?
So stop gossiping. With that being said, I would like to conclude today’s article. So what are your thoughts about this list of “Key Rules to Become the most dominant man in the Room/tips to become a dominant man/Steps to Dominate/Tips to become the most attractive man in the room”? Let me know about your thoughts, comments, suggestions, and feedback over at my Instagram (@worldofnyazi). And I will see you guys in another one,