Hey Guys! I hope you are doing Good. In today’s article, we will talk about something that needs to be discussed on top priority. It’s all about you, my brother. Let me explain.
So let’s say you feel depressed. Chances are that these days you have been considering yourself a failure due to any particular reason.
Maybe you wanted to become a Doctor, or an Engineer but due to some reason, you were unable to do so. Hmm, that’s sad but should that stop you from moving forward and crushing in life?
Ok, I understand that it is hard to stay calm in such circumstances. You feel tensed and worried because you consider yourself a failure who can’t do anything well. But not anymore.
Today, we are going to end this. In today’s article, we will talk about some very apparent signs (that you have been ignoring), you are doing much better than you think.
- You definitely are doing much better than most people out there.
- Most importantly you are living a life full of joy and excitement.
But How? Let’s discuss that now. Shall we?
Apparent Signs you are doing much better than you think!
- You are Self-aware.
- Your friends are a gem.
- You take notes and never repeat your mistakes.
- You do not buy the hyped-up & trendy stuff.
- Always trying out new things? Hmm…
- You never settle.
- You do not stop easily.
- Your Preference includes taking short breaks.
- You are following your passion.
- Your self-care game is super strong.
- You can say “No” very easily.
- You’ve thrown away the toxic people out of your life.
- You know how to manage time.
- You make time for fun activities every single day.
That’s it. This in front of you is the list of apparent signs that you are doing much better than you think. So without any further ado, let’s hop straight into each one of these to discuss them in detail. Shall we?
1: You are self-aware.
So the first one in the list is self-awareness.
Maybe you were unable to become what you wanted to become primarily but at least you know who you are. And along with that, you have a clear idea of what you can achieve in 1, 2, and 5 years.
Chances are that you are moving slow but at the end of the day, you know you are on the right track. You can definitely evaluate your progress and that’s one of the most important things!
Most people lack self-awareness. They do not know what needs to be done in life. Do they lack the Plan “A”. Backup plans? Regarding what? They literally have no idea what they should be doing with their lives.
And there you are, aware of your current position. You understand your position and your stance. Congratulations! You are halfway there. Chances are that you weren’t able to pursue what you originally wanted but whatever it is that you are doing at the moment, due to the fact that you are fully aware of what you are doing, you are definitely going to make it big!
2: Your group of friends
Look at me for a second. So you are feeling really down, hah? You think that you weren’t able to make it big. You consider yourself a failure who has nothing.
Guess what? You are forgetting something. There is this thing that you are gifted which you aren’t counting on in the blessings. I am talking about your surroundings. The friends who you are surrounded with. They lift you up whenever you are down.
Following are a couple of things which I’ve seen them doing and due to that, I believe you are super blessed.
- They are always very positive about life. Whenever something negative pops up they start looking for a solution instead of sitting and talking about crap about their lives.
- They boost you up. And not just you but everyone else in the group enjoy this benefit. Everyone stays positive in the group.
- Your friends are all about moving forward and crushing it in life. Yes, they are not successful yet but their habits and morals indicate that all of you are going to be super successful one day!
- They are far away from fakeness. They keep it real and stay truthful with each other.
And the list of positive points goes on and on. While having such gems around you, how can you think about crying over your life situations? You need to understand the importance of having quality people around you who support you in tough times. If you have such people around you then you are definitely doing much better than you think.
3: You take notes and never repeat your mistakes.
So the next sign you are doing much better than you think is the fact that you take notes and you have this habit of never repeating your mistakes.
Who does not makes mistakes? Everyone does. But the reason why I believe you are doing much better than most of the people out there is the fact that you are taking notes.
That guy Ali wanted to start his own business but he failed miserably. Why? Because he learned nothing from the last businesses that he started. He lost it twice.
Well, failure is a part of life but at the end of the day, you need to take notes and try to understand the reason behind the failure. Sitting back and saying stuff like, “Failure is a part of every successful career” won’t make you successful.
I agree that every successful man failed once, twice, and even countless amount of times as well. But all of them took notes. They were writing down the mistakes that they made throughout the process and they tried their best to not repeat those mistakes. And that’s how you become successful.
You need to realize the mistakes that you made, write them down, and then try to never repeat them. In case you are somebody who does this same exact thing than you, my friend, are definitely doing much better than you think.
4: You do not buy the hyped-up & trendy stuff.
Everyone is busy buying branded items, hyped-up clothing, and all the trendy stuff out there. They are buying it not because of the quality but because of the fact that these items are trendy and popular.
But you are different. You, my friend, understand the importance of saving money and buying clothing items at discount, instead of just going there and spending all the cash that you have to buy something that you can get 20% or even 50% off if you wait for some while.
This habit of yours is going to make you super successful one day. Hey! You buy things that you think are premium in quality and not those who you consider are trendy or hyped-up. Quality can come at different prices.
Plus your habit of saving cash and buying items at a discount is definitely something that has made you an eligible candidate for the list of “Much better than you think”.
Some tips to avail discounts on clothing items
Whenever you visit the brand next time, ask them to add you up on their “SMS alert Service“. Well, I am totally aware of the fact that you are gonna get a lot of messages because of this move but you need to stay positive and think about the benefits that you are getting.
Go to your Favourite Brand’s Instagram and Hit that “Follow” button over there. This is gonna make sure that you get notified when they release any new item or when they Go On SALE!. Secondly, what you can do is that you can always visit your Favourite Brand’s website.
Over there, Enter your Email Address, one you use on a daily basis, and Hit that “Subscribe” button. That way you will be notified about new arrivals and SALES. That way you will get your required information without physically visiting the Store.
Do Make sure that you follow your Boy Nyazi as well (@WorldofNyazi) because I have a Mission to convert you into a BRAND.thatwowman.com
Factory Outlets are my top recommendation to anybody who loves to shop branded Items but at the same time, they are Low on the budget. They have B-Pairs that are fairly cheap. Plus, Almost all the Factory outlets have sales going on throughout the year.
5: You are always trying out new stuff.
.So you are always busy trying out new things, Hah?
Maybe you are always looking for better business opportunities. Chances are that you are always wanting to get better things in life and for that reason, you try to look for new ideas to take your business on a whole new level.
Learning new things, trying to look for a new hobby to adopt, searching for new perspectives, etc. All of these things help make your life better and if you are somebody who is doing all of that, then you for sure are doing much better than you think.
6: You never settle.
I agree that you are not there yet. Chances are that you are far away from the end goal but there is this thing about you that makes me happy. Your habit of never settling shows that one day you are going to become extremely successful in whatever domain you are not settling for anything less than your goals.
Chances are that your goal is to improve your skin and take your look to a whole new level. You’ve achieved this goal. Now what? Should you settle and just be happy because of what you’ve achieved? Nah.
I know you. Your friends told me that you never settle. You are going to put the standards high and then try to achieve the new goal that you’ve set for yourself. This is exactly how you are going to take things to a whole new level.
This habit of yours, the habit of never settling shows that you are doing much better than you think.
7: You do not stop.
Hurdles have increased several folds. Well, things are so much difficult for you now but all of that makes sense. You are already very far from where you started.
I know that you think that you’ve achieved nothing but at the end of the day, the place where you are now is a dream for most of them.
But you are not willing to stop. Are you?
The circumstances have been very difficult lately. The situation has been really tensed lately and due to that, you’ve thought about giving up once or twice almost every single day. But you’ve always pushed this thought down.
You are not willing to give up. All these hurdles and you had a smile on your face throughout all this time. Hey! I am so proud of you.
This is a clear sign that you are doing much better than you think.
8: You take short breaks.
But how are you able to keep going after all this fuss? You feel tired and you’ve definitely thought about giving up, a lot of times. Right?
But you never give up… That’s great but let’s try and break this entire thing down, and find out how you are able to stay strong.
Short breaks. That’s the secret.
Guys this is definitely one of the clearest & apparent signs showing that you are doing much better than you think. You take short breaks that stop you from quitting and that’s a very good thing.
Men who keep going and force themselves to crush it even though their minds are almost exhausted are those who give up and never look back. But you are far away from that mentality because you believe in continuous growth instead of quick growth.
Most importantly you understand the importance of taking a week off. This is the time where you are thinking about fun things only. This week off is going to fill back your energy giving you enough strength to crush it yet again at work.
9: You are following your passion.
Hardships are there. I know that things get very tough at times. And right now you are sitting and thinking about yourself. You feel like you are doing good enough.
But wait. Before adding any other negative thought in your mind, I want you to imagine a situation where you had to work your a&& off in a field where you had 0 interest in…
Your friends told me that working in the marketing sector was your passion and that’s exactly what you are doing at the moment. Right?
This is your passion that you are putting this much work on. Isn’t it? Imagine having to burst your a&& off to the same limit but in an accounting or Statistics related job/business. That would’ve been much difficult. No?
Be thankful for what you’ve been given. Guys being able to work in the area of your passion is definitely one of the clearest & apparent signs you are doing much better than you think.
10: Your self-care game is super strong.
The next one in the list of apparent signs you are doing much better than you think has a lot to do with your self-care game.
So you are super sad. Hah? Have you looked at yourself in the mirror?
OMG! You have been crushing it lately. Your muscles shout sexiness and that Face Oh God, it looks perfect. All of that because you’ve been following a proper self-care regimen.
You’ve been taking great care of your hair, skin, and your entire health, due to which you look this good. All of these things are the reason why you should be very thankful. Hey! You are definitely doing much better than you think.
What? You have been ignoring self-care lately. No? Oh. So you want to learn more about that. Don’t worry my brother, I’ve got you covered. Following are a few tips that you are definitely going to find super handy.
Tips to have a better-looking face
So you want to have a Better Looking face. Right? I’ve for you a bunch of tips that you can implement in your daily routine. These tips are going to help transform your facial beauty, taking it from the earth to the skies.
“I have tried my best to make my face slimmer, I have been chewing gum as well but nothing seems to work”. If you think that by only chewing gum for about 5 hours per day you are gonna get the most perfect jawline then I afraid to say that you wrong. You are so wrong my friend because what’s gonna really affect your facial structure is the change in your Diet.
I can’t tell you the importance of Diet and How just by changing it you can gradually with the passage of time, change the way you Look. It’s not about your face only but let’s say if you want to build muscles, still you will be needing an appropriate diet plan because otherwise, you won’t see any results at all.
You need to avoid foods that have sugar in them, be it bakery products, packaged foods, Soy, Corn, Gluten, etc. On the other hand, what I recommend to all of you is that You all must be Drinking at least 12 glasses of water per day
And last but not the least, Say no to Salty Food! Salt gets accumulated on your face and it is no doubt the main cause of water retention which causes swelling on your face. You don’t want that at all, Right? You want to Look More Handsome and You definitely want to get a Better Looking / Attractive Face. Right?
Consume less salt! Yeah, thats it. Avoid deep-fried food items that have lots of Oils in them because they increase the number of fatty tissues which results in more fat on your face. #SayNoToJunkFood.
Focus on your Skincare
Your Skin gentlemen is a game changer! You can’t expect to Look good while having Crappy Skin that Has Acne All over. I have written a detailed post where I talked about some tips that you can implement in your daily life to Have glowing Skin and takes not more than just a few days.
I am gonna talk about some of the main points which I have discussed in that post for all of you to give you an outline of what to do to make your Skin better looking.
Build your Skin Care Routine
1: Taking Care of your Skin doesn’t mean that you need to apply dozens of Cosmetic products per day to keep your skin looking new and Fresh. It’s just about washing your face twice a day with a good face wash based on your skin type. Wash your face followed by applying moisturizer to your skin.
2: If you have dry skin then you are not supposed to Use a Face wash and moisturizer designed for people who have Oily Skin. Take your time and Do the required Research before purchasing anything because I don’t want you to spend money on something that doesn’t even work.
3: Last but not the least, You need to exfoliate your skin at least once a week (or twice). What it does is that it removes all the dead skin cells from your face making the remaining skin looking Fresh like a Newborn baby which screams “Moisturise Me” So there you go… Apply moisturizer and you are good to Go!
1: Guys! You Plan to Get a Better Looking Face But on the Other hand You are Not Wearing Sun Screen. Sun Screens are a Gift for us that protects our Skin from Harmful Ultraviolet rays that are coming from Sun. These Rays penetrate your Skin and Destroy the Skin cells causing Sunburn and other Skin Problems as well.
2: Purchase Sunscreen based on the Country and City you Live in. If you living in a Super Hot City Like Karachi then SPF-15 is gonna do no good to your Skin. You need at least SPF- 40 or above to see the results. So these are little but very important things that can make or break a deal in the World of Skin Care. “Always buy Sun Screen that is right for the Environment You Live in”
All About Masks
They Do Work! They can actually do wonders for your Skin based on the fact that you are using the correct one for your Face. I know that you have seen a lot of Youtube videos and almost each one of those has told you about a new kind of Mask that involves mixing plenty of ingredients and applying them to your skin in the form of Mixture paste.
But I am not going to recommend any of it. I believe that everyone has a unique skin type and I am gonna leave 2 different masks that I have used myself and almost everyone who I have recommended this to has given me positive feedback.
1: Gram Flour Mask:
You need Gram Flour, Some Yogurt, and a little bit of Rose Water. Mix these and apply them onto your Face and Leave it for 20 minutes. Wash it off and that’s it! Do this every Sunday and Your Skin is gonna become super fresh and Dirt Free!
2: Clay Mask:
My mother told me about it and not that it’s the only reason I am recommending it to you but Hey! Mothers know the best! And the same is the case here. Clay masks are very good for your skin because they have Bentonite in them which is very essential for your Skin. It reduces Pores and improves the overall appearance of your skin as well by soaking away the dirt and pollution and Excessive oils as well!
You can either purchase something like L’oreal Mask Jar and you can also go for a natural solution to this problem would be using “Fuller’s Earth” (Multani Mitti).
Take Some Multani Mitti and Mix it up with Rosewater. Apply it on your face. Leave it for 20 minutes and you are good to go!
By following the above-given Skincare Routine you can expect to see results in less than a month. Your skin will definitely improve and You, My Friend, will have a Glow on your Face which instantly is gonna make your Face better Looking than Before.
Eye Care Routine
- Massage your Eyes with the Help of Good eye cream. But make sure that you are being gentle because the skin underneath is very sensitive.
- You need to be sleeping at least 7 hours per day in order to make sure that all of your body’s functions are performing effectively. And this is very crucial to get a Better Looking Face.
- You might also wanna massage your eyes with the Help of Almond oil. And do apply cucumber slices over your eyes before going to sleep (for about 5-10 minutes). Doing this will Cool down your Eyes. One more thing that seems to work very well is Dipping tea bags in water and then applying it to your eyes for 5 minutes or so. This method is recommended by a lot of people and so far I haven’t seen anybody complaining or saying any bad thing about it.
- Eyelashes Gentlemen, No doubt are a sign of beauty. Girls and us men as well are attracted more towards the guys with bigger and thicker eyelashes as compared to those who have thinner and Shorter eyelashes. And the same is the case with eyebrows. How to get bigger eyelashes and Eyebrows? Castor Oil! Gentlemen I have been using castor oil for a Year now and trust me It really works. Just pour some Castor oil into the Mascara tube and then apply it as if you are applying Mascara to your eyes. Curl the lashes with the help of a Mascara brush (that has castor oil applied to it). You can use the same brush on your eyebrows as well.
For more tips and recommendations checkout: 8 Easy Steps For Guys to Get a Better Looking Face (Look Handsome).
Take Care of your Hair
- dDo Not Forget to Apply Argan Oil Every Single Day
- Oil Masks are Very Important (Yogurt + Coconut Oil + Egg)
- Do Not Shampoo your Hair Every Day
- Too Much Hair product is Bad for your Hair
- Protect Your Hair From WATER
- Quick Solution for the Oily Scalp (Use Dry Shampoo)
- Get your Haircut Done every 3 Weeks
- Change your Shampoo and Conditioner as well
- Get Rid of the DANDRUFF ASAP (Neutrogena T/Gel Therapeutic Shampoo)
- Shorten your Hair (And Get Rid of MOST hair problems)
- Purchase a Trimmer
- Avoid Hot Showers
- Purchase a Pocket Hair Product
- Change your Hair Product
- Special Way to Blow Dry your Hair (Head Down Trick)
- Take a Note on the Humidity
- Stress Less
- Avoid Hard Water
- Style your Hair Before Going to Bed
- Learn to Style Hats
All of the above-given tips are going to help you take your hair game to the next level. To get into each of these tips in detail, check out: Hair Care for Men: 21 Tips to Have the Best Hair Around!
Take Care of your Body
And last but not the least, probably one of the most important part is to take care of your body.
It all boils down to having a great-looking body. Guys! you need to start working out and eat healthy if you really want to take your handsomeness to a whole, unbelievably new level.
- Workout every single day, at least 5 times a week.
- Change your Diet.
- Sleep for about 7-8 hours.
- Make sure that you are not stressing much.
- Do not listen to just any random dude in the gym. Take help from the professionals.
- Diet is very important. Eat healthy food and do make sure that you do it consistently if you really want to see the results.
11: You can say “No”.
The next one in the list of apparent signs you are doing much better than you think is the fact that you have the courage to say “No”.
Are you kidding me? I mean, my brother, you are so brave that you can No to them. Chances are that somebody is trying to push you down, maybe he is crossing his limits, joking around when you don’t want him to cross this particular limit.. It is difficult for most of us to stand up and say “No” to their face.
But you have the courage to get up and speak for yourself. You can say “No” to their face while looking into their eyes. And that’s something which I believe most people can’t do!
Being able to say No and stop people from pushing you down is definitely something that shows you are doing much better than you think.
12: You’ve thrown away the toxic people out of your life.
I am talking about the friends. The people who were in your life last year.
- They used to bring you down.
- They never thought that you can ever make it big.
- A Big Laughter… That’s the only thing that you would get from them whenever you used to pitch your big idea in front of them.
- They were too busy wasting their lives plus they had every bad habit one can name.
You gathered the courage to say “no” and you moved on. You left all of them for yourself and for your better future. This step of yours alone is one of the signs that you are doing much better than you think. You have cut off a source of negativity and that’s great to the limits.
13: You know how to manage time.
The next thing in the list of apparent signs you are doing much better than you think is the fact that you are able to manage time.
Guys! I am talking about your habit of doing things on time, a lot of things actually, but still having enough time left. This happens because you know how to write things down and how to assign a specific amount of time to every task that you need to do in a day.
When you assign the appropriate time, then you are more likely to complete the task in that given amount of time, and thats how by the end of the day you are able to save a lot of time after completing all the tasks that you had listed earlier.
Al thanks to the To-do list (being able to make it properly an follow the list religiously is no doubt one of the signs you are doing much better than you think).
14: You make time for fun activities every single day.
I am so happy billy. Why? Because you not only complete the tasks on time but you also assign the remaining time to the fun activities.
It could be anything, playing some sort of sports, gaming, watching shows, etc. The fact that you involve fun activities in your lifestyle every single day means that you are not going to burn out anytime sooner. So indirectly by adding fun activities in your everyday life, you are making your work-life more efficient and effective as well.
That’s great and for sure one of the signs you are doing much better than you think.
And with that being said, I would like to conclude today’s article. So what are your thoughts about this list of apparent signs you are doing much better than you think? Do let me know about your comments, suggestions, etc, over at my Instagram (@worldofnyazi) and I will come back to you ASAP,